So to start off comforting someone, simply describe what you're seeing/sensing. Say something like, “
I know you're having such a hard time with this
,” or “I'm sorry you're hurting so much.” Also affirm that you hear what they're saying by saying it back to them in your own words.
What do you say to console people?
- I am so sorry for your loss.
- I wish I had the right words, just know I care.
- I don't know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.
- You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
- My favorite memory of your loved one is…
- I am always just a phone call away.
How do you console someone?
- Be There for Them. We show up for the people we care about. …
- Tell Them (and Show) That You Love Them. …
- Let Them Know You're Thinking of Them.
- Take Time to Listen. …
- A Hug Can Speak Volumes.
- Share Memories. …
- Continue Offering Support.
How do you comfort someone?
- Acknowledge Their Feelings.
- Repeat Their Feelings.
- Draw Their Emotions Out.
- Don't Minimize Their Pain.
- Be There For Them, Right At That Moment.
- Offer Physical Affection, When Appropriate.
- Express Your Support.
- Tell Them They're Special.
What are some comforting words?
- I'm sorry.
- I care about you.
- He/she will be dearly missed.
- He/she is in my thoughts and prayers.
- You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
- You are important to me.
- My condolences.
- I hope you find some peace today.
How do you console someone in hard times?
- “Thank you for all you do for us, but now is a time to take care of yourself as well.” …
- “I'm proud of you.” …
- “I hate that you're going through this, but I know that you've got this.” …
- “Remember when you were there for me? …
- “Here's how we're going to take care of your work while you're away.”
What to say to comfort a friend?
So to start off comforting someone, simply describe what you're seeing/sensing. Say something like, “
I know you're having such a hard time with this
,” or “I'm sorry you're hurting so much.” Also affirm that you hear what they're saying by saying it back to them in your own words.
How do you cheer someone up?
- Listen Up. When life gets overwhelming it helps to have someone willing to listen. …
- Give Hugs. It sounds so simple, it's stupid.
- Give Them a Handwritten Note or Card. …
- Have a Chuckle. …
- Make Them Dinner. …
- Share a Walk. …
- Have a Movie Night. …
- A Spa Experience.
What do you say to a sad friend?
- Can I help by doing x y or z? …
- This is a temporary-yet-painful situation. …
- It IS hard to imagine a way out of this mess. …
- I'm here to listen whenever you need me. …
- I'm so glad we're friends. …
- I'm sorry you have to go through this.
How do you write a comforting message?
“
Wishing you strength and comfort through this difficult time
.” “Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort.” “I hope you know I'm here for you during this time of sorrow.” “Please accept my warmest condolences.
How do you write a short condolence message?
- A thought of comfort and condolences to the grieving family.
- Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.
- Heartfelt thoughts go out to you in this time of sorrow.
- I will be thinking of you in this moment of pain.
- I am thinking about you and sending love.
What is the best condolence message?
As a testament to your strength and courage,
you are in our prayers
. We hope you find peace and comfort in your time of grief. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers, and that we are sharing in your sorrow. Let the memories provide comfort in your journey through this loss.
What to say to someone who's struggling?
A heartfelt
“I'm sorry”
goes a long way. People may shy away from saying, “I'm sorry” in response to someone's misfortune because it might not feel like enough of an acknowledgment. But Miller says a genuine “I'm sorry” can go a long way to make your friend feel heard and validated.
What can I say instead of sorry for your loss?
- “I am here for you, no matter what.”
- “I know you are hurting.”
- “I'm sorry that I can't take this pain away.”
- “Let me take care of this errand for you.”
- “I love you.”
How do you tell someone you're worried about them?
Let them know you're there to listen
. Tell them what you're worried about. If you think they have been doing things which are unsafe, talk about what you've noticed. Let them know you're talking about it because you care about them.
How do you make someone smile in words?
- 1 Compliment them geniunely.
- 2 Crack a few jokes to make them laugh.
- 3 Give some words of encouragement.
- 4 Express your gratitude.
- 5 Offer words of support.
- 6 Share that you thought about them recently.
- 7 Ask them if they need anything.
- 8 Say that you miss them if they live far away.