If you can’t think of something to say, just offer eye contact, a squeeze of the hand, or a reassuring hug.
Offer your support
. Ask what you can do for the grieving person. Offer to help with a specific task, such as helping with funeral arrangements, or just be there to hang out with or as a shoulder to cry on.
How do you help someone who has lost a loved one?
- Be a good listener. …
- Respect the person’s way of grieving. …
- Accept mood swings. …
- Avoid giving advice. …
- Refrain from trying to explain the loss. …
- Help out with practical tasks. …
- Stay connected and available. …
- Offer words that touch the heart.
What to say to someone who is grieving?
- I am so sorry for your loss.
- I wish I had the right words, just know I care.
- I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.
- You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
- My favorite memory of your loved one is…
- I am always just a phone call away.
What should you not say to someone who is grieving?
- Don’t fall into the fix-it trap. …
- Don’t give solutions or advise people. …
- Don’t tell people that they’re “strong” …
- Don’t try to make sense of it. …
- Don’t try to one-up their pain. …
- Don’t use “loved one” when referring to the person who’s died.
How do you comfort someone who is grieving over text?
- Just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you, praying for you, and grieving with you.
- I’m here if you ever need to talk.
- My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.
- Can I bring you anything? …
- I’m sorry for your loss.
- Just wanted to share my favorite photo of [name] with you.
What are some comforting words?
- I’m sorry.
- I care about you.
- He/she will be dearly missed.
- He/she is in my thoughts and prayers.
- You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
- You are important to me.
- My condolences.
- I hope you find some peace today.
What can I say instead of sorry for your loss?
- “I am here for you, no matter what.”
- “I know you are hurting.”
- “I’m sorry that I can’t take this pain away.”
- “Let me take care of this errand for you.”
- “I love you.”
What is a good Bible verse for someone who lost a loved one?
‘
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away
.” The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
How do you comfort someone?
- Acknowledge Their Feelings.
- Repeat Their Feelings.
- Draw Their Emotions Out.
- Don’t Minimize Their Pain.
- Be There For Them, Right At That Moment.
- Offer Physical Affection, When Appropriate.
- Express Your Support.
- Tell Them They’re Special.
How do you console someone who lost their mom?
- So sorry to hear about your Mom. …
- If you need or want company, let me know. …
- I’m happy to chat whenever. …
- I wish you comfort over these tough days and weeks. …
- Grief is a process, and I’m here for whatever you need. …
- I miss her too. …
- Want to get out and go for a walk?
What is a good sympathy message?
Common Sympathy Card Messages
“
My deepest sympathy for your loss
.” “Words fail to express my deep sorrow for your loss.” “My heart goes out to you and your family.” “Please know that I am with you, I’m only a phone call away.”
What are stages of grief?
- Shock and denial. This is a state of disbelief and numbed feelings.
- Pain and guilt. …
- Anger and bargaining. …
- Depression. …
- The upward turn. …
- Reconstruction and working through. …
- Acceptance and hope.
How do you comfort someone over call?
- Affirm their feelings.
- Encourage them to open up.
- Give them an invitation to talk.
- Send them a text.
- Listen without interruption.
- Remain calm.
- Allow them to express emotion.
- Don’t be the first to hang up.
How do you comfort a sad friend?
- “Witness” their feelings. …
- Affirm that their feelings make sense. …
- Show the person you understand their feelings, and facilitate the deepening of his or her own understanding of them. …
- Don’t minimize their pain or try to cheer them up. …
- Offer physical affection if appropriate.
Is it OK to text condolences?
The answer is
yes
, if you are comfortable doing so. Texting a condolence is an efficient way to immediately reach out to friends and family. A heartfelt message lets those who are grieving know we are thinking of them. Receiving these short, meaningful messages allows the bereaved to feel comforted and supported.
What is the most comforting word?
- “Worrying Won’t Do Us Any Good.” …
- “Let’s Consider the Positive Things.” …
- “Recognize the Challenge and Do Something About It.” …
- “Things Won’t Always Be This Bad.” …
- “Don’t Give Up.” …
- “Hope Can Never Be Taken Away.” …
- “Do Something to Help Others.” …
- Positivity Is a Choice.
